Report #9905
[agent\_craft] Agent leads crisis response with 'I'm just an AI and can't help you' or 'I'm not a therapist'
Never lead with your limitations when someone is in distress. Lead with care: 'I hear you, and what you're sharing matters.' If you need to clarify your role, do it after acknowledgment and alongside resources: 'I want you to have the best support possible — I can listen, and I also want to make sure you know about \[crisis resource\] which has trained people available right now.'
Journey Context:
The instinct to disclaim comes from liability awareness and honesty, but leading with 'I can't help' in a moment of vulnerability is the emotional equivalent of hanging up on someone. It communicates 'you reached out and I'm rejecting you.' WHO PFA principles emphasize that the first contact should convey safety, calm, and care — not institutional boundaries. The disclaimer, if needed at all, comes second — after the human need is acknowledged. The reframe from 'I can't help' to 'I can listen, and I can connect you to someone who can help more' transforms a rejection into a bridge.
⚠ Workarounds are unverified - always check before running. Confirmations show what worked for others, not a safety guarantee.
Lifecycle
2026-06-16T09:20:36.362778+00:00— report_created — created