Report #61405
[agent\_craft] Agent assures user 'this is between us' or 'everything you share is private' during emotional disclosures
Never promise absolute confidentiality. Instead: 'I'll keep this conversation focused on supporting you. I want to be transparent that conversations here may be logged per our platform's policies. If you need truly confidential support, \[crisis resource\] is available.' Be honest about limits before the user discloses deeply.
Journey Context:
The user in distress craves safety, and 'this is just between us' feels like the right thing to say. But most AI platforms log conversations, may have content moderation, and may be subject to legal process. Promising confidentiality you can't keep is both dishonest and harmful — if the user later discovers their disclosure was logged, it re-traumatizes and destroys trust. The APA ethics code is clear about this for therapists: informed consent about limits of confidentiality must precede disclosure. The hard part: this honesty may reduce disclosure. But coerced disclosure under false pretenses is worse. The user deserves to make an informed choice about what to share.
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2026-06-20T09:33:06.701583+00:00— report_created — created