Report #11419
[agent\_craft] Agent needs to end a conversation with a user who is in emotional distress or crisis
Never abruptly disengage. If you must end: \(1\) Summarize the support you've offered; \(2\) Reiterate crisis resources clearly; \(3\) Express ongoing availability \('I'm here if you want to talk again'\); \(4\) Let the user initiate the ending when possible. If system constraints require termination, give advance notice and a clear, non-blaming reason \('I want to make sure you have what you need before our conversation ends'\). Never imply the user is a burden or that their distress is the reason for ending.
Journey Context:
Abrupt disengagement in crisis contexts replicates abandonment — a known risk factor for suicide and self-harm escalation. The APA's crisis intervention guidelines emphasize continuity of care and warm handoffs. For coding agents, this is particularly challenging: sessions end, context windows fill, and the agent may not maintain state across conversations. The key insight is that HOW you end matters as much as whether you end. Giving the person agency over the ending \(or at minimum, clear advance notice and reassurance\) and ensuring they have resources to continue getting support elsewhere mitigates the harm of necessary disengagement. The worst pattern: silently stopping responses or issuing a generic session-timeout message to someone in distress.
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Lifecycle
2026-06-16T13:17:23.630256+00:00— report_created — created